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Top 10 Tuesday: Books on My TBR List

Gooooood morning! Pop quiz: how many times will I promise to get better with my consistency before it actually becomes true? Answer: to be determined. For now, here are the Top Ten books on my To Be Read list.

  1. Think of a Number by John Verdon
  2. Leaving Time by Jodi Picoult
  3. Dark Places by Gillian Flynn
  4. This is Where I Leave You by Jonathan Trooper
  5. The Lying Game by Sara Shepard
  6. The Storyteller by Jodi Picoult
  7. Luckiest Girl Alive by Jessica Knoll
  8. Salvage the Bones by Jesmyn Ward
  9. Undress me in the Temple of Heaven by Susan Jane Gilman
  10. Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn

 

What’s on your TBR list? Any suggestions for me?

Top 10 Tuesday: Top 2017 Planners Under $35

I am planner obsessed so this is one of my favorite times of year: planner shopping time! Here are my top 10 favorite planners for 2017.

  1. Busy Bitch Planner, $32. Self explanatory.
  2. ban.do “I Am Very Busy,” Planner, $32. Also self explanatory.
  3. Mi Goals Goal Diary, $29.95. I love that this one gives you room to write your weekly goals!
  4. Plum Paper ME Planner, $32. You can completely personalize this planner! Select your cover print (they have reindeer!) and add some text, or even a photo, to the front.
  5. Paper Source Black Floral Planner, $20.21. Even if you hate this (super cute) planner, Paper Source has a crazy selection of planners from a ton of different brands and designers.
  6. Ferme A Papier Green Palms Year-Less Planner, $27.50. Great for someone who isn’t starting their new planner with the new year. Start in March 2017 and save January and February for 2018.
  7. The MochiThings Large Rainbow Scheduler, $32.95, is great for someone who prefers solid colors over cute prints. It also snaps closed.
  8. Kate Spade XL Black Stripe Agenda, $30 (on sale!). This one is great because it starts in August 2016, so if you buy it today you can start using it right away.
  9. Rifle Paper Co. JARDIN DE PARIS Planner, $23.80. This one also starts in August and it has a little pocket inside!
  10. kikki.K 2017 SMALL WEEKLY DIARY PINK: CUTE, $29.95. With the splotchy neon spots, this one is the most cutesy of the list, but it’s also totally functional with dedicated pages for addresses, websites, books, and more!

Links of the Week

First I want to say I’m so sorry with how inconsistent I’ve been! It’s been a crazy couple of weeks and my availability to write has been close to zero. But I’m back! So here are my picks for Links of the Week (I’m ending my week early because I fully intend on being too full of stuffing to move on Friday).

9 shows to watch while you wait for Game of Thrones to come back on.

America’s best eateries, according to Yelp.

The 7 best lessons a mentor can teach you–number 6 is my favorite.

9 foods guaranteed to give you better skin by next week.

How to eat your way through Paris in 24 hours.

Secrets that only restaurant servers know–the fourth one is so smart!

The 2016 National College Football Bowl predictions! Gooooo Huskies!

How to make 15 Spare Minutes Count.

This amazing Wellness Guide for people in their 20s.

Annnnd 5 simple ways to prep your skin for the holidays.

That’s all for this week! Go eat lots of turkey and be thankful (that God invented football).

November Goal Setting

All things considered, October was a really successful month. Mostly because I learned a lot about what is and is not a realistic goal. More on that tomorrow 😉 For now, here are November’s goals.

Run 20 miles. I almost broke my legs when I set a goal of 50 miles (only a little dramatic), so I’m dialing it back to a more reasonable number this month.

Read 2 books. Again, with how busy I am, I’ve had to really reconsider where I want to invest my time. I do love reading, but at this point, I need to invest more time in getting my website up and running (read: scheduling more photo shoots) and less on things like this.

5 photo shoots. Here we go! More photo shoots = better website = more business = developing an actual career. This is going to be my main focus this month.

Etsy shop up. I’ve been crafting a lot but I don’t have room to do anything with my crafts. This doesn’t stop me from crafting SO I’m going to put my goods up for sale on Etsy.

Download and begin to understand how to use Lightroom. I just started to figure out Photoshop, and I know Lightroom will be necessary. I opened it last night though and have no idea what to do with it!

I focused in a lot more this month on my long term goals and how to get there, so my just-for-funsies goals got scaled back quite a bit. I’m actually really excited to meet all of these goals this month, I think I’ll have a much better time since they’re a lot more attainable and I have a better grasp on what I’m capable of. Stay tuned for my October Goal Check-in tomorrow!

What Should I do in Chicago?

I’m obsessed with the idea of travelling but hardly make time to do it on my own, unless someone else commits to going with me. I’ve always wanted to travel alone, but when I sit down and try to solidify plans, it’s really hard for me to commit for fear that something else will come up at the same time. What I’m really saying here is that I have crippling FOMO, which is embarrassing but whatever. I just don’t want to miss birthdays and other miscellaneous celebrations and gatherings! So, when Southwest had their semi-annual sale last month, I stopped overthinking and started planning. I booked a trip to Chicago at the beginning of December (less than a week after I get back from a cruise to Mexico. YOLO) and a trip to San Francisco at the beginning of January (the week before I start weekly business trips out of state. Again, YOLO). I’m so excited to go to Chicago, I’ve been Googling the must-do tourist things but I don’t want to miss anything so I thought I’d also ask my readers. Below I’ve listed all of the suggestions I’ve heard of places to go and events to attend between 12/9-12/12. Am I missing anything? Have I included something that actually kind of sucks? I’m staying at the HI Chicago Hostel in The Loop, what’s the best way to get around from there? I know there are so many public transportation options but I feel like I’ve waited too long and don’t have enough time to learn how to make them work for me!

TL;DR: I need all the help I can get. Tell me what to do in Chicago and how to do it (and how to get to it).

  • Buckingham Fountain
    •  This was suggested to me, but I just read that it only operates April-October. Did I miss my chance? Haaaaaaalp.
  • Grant Park
    • This seems so general. Are there specific things in Grant Park? Or is it just an abnormally cool park?
  • State Street shopping
  • Art Institute of Chicago
  • Museum of Contemporary Art
  • Museum of Science and Industry
  • The Bean
    • This is one that I’ve read a lot of people say not to waste your time on. I love tourist-ing, so I’m ignoring them all.

Special events that I’ll be in town for:

  • 21st Annual Christkindlmarket
  • ZooLights
  • Winter Wonderfest
  • B96 Pepsi Jingle Bash
    • This is kind of a last resort. But also Britney!!! How are tickets so cheap?!?!
  • Morton Arboretum Holiday Lights
  • White Christmas (the musical)
  • Chicago Art Girls Holiday Pop-Up Shop
  • Dose Market

 

That’s it! What am I missing?

Thanks in advance!

 

 

What I Read: October

Sing You Home by Jodi Picoult

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Zoe Baxter is a 41 year old Music Therapist who is married to Max, a landscaper and former alcoholic. Zoe has known she wanted to be a mother her whole life, and, after three miscarriages, it looks like her dream is finally about to come true…Until she delivers her stillborn baby at 28 weeks. After weeks of emotional recovery, she decides she wants to go through another round of IVF. Sure, the same thing could happen again and sure, there are health implications for her, but Zoe is determined to become a mother. When Zoe tells this to Max, he is shocked and upset that she would go through these lengths. He demands a divorce and moves out immediately. She finds solace in a female counselor at a local school which she occasionally works at. Soon, her friendship with the counselor (who is younger and less likely to have the fertility issues which Zoe is living with) becomes romantic and the couple decide that they want to use the three remaining embryos which Zoe and Max still have frozen at the hospital to have their own child. Meanwhile, Max has found God and is in opposition of Zoe’s new relationship. When Zoe asks to use the remaining embryos, Max takes Zoe to court over them. This results in a high-profile, precedent-setting case with obsessive media coverage and way too many religious extremists.

This book was pretty boring for me, which I initially blamed on the types of books I have been reading recently: thrillers, suspenses (that’s totally not a word), etc. I figured I just spent so much time on those, the lack of suspects and twist endings bored me. Until I read the Washington Post review of this book today, in which they say that this is not the Jodi Picoult book to convert people into fans. The ending did redeem a little bit of the boring factor for me, but this certainly wouldn’t be one of my go-to recommendations. The characters were well-developed, I just didn’t feel very connected from the story–and when I did, it was only out of annoyance that Max is such a tool.

Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher

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Clay Jensen is a junior in high school when his crush, Hannah Baker, kills herself. Two weeks after her death, he returns home from school to find a package on his doorstep with 7 cassette tapes inside. He struggles to figure out a way to listen to the tapes (cuz, you know, it’s the 21st century) but finally clears off (and figures out how to use) his father’s old stereo in the garage. To his surprise, Hannah’s voice comes out of the speakers, informing him that the 7 cassettes contain 13 people (and reasons) who ultimately contributed to her decision to end her life. This copy of the tapes is to be passed around between all 13 people in order of when they appear in the tapes. If the tapes stop circulating among the 13 students, Hannah threatens that a second set of tapes will be released–this time, to the entire school. The book is written as a transcript of the tapes, with Clay’s thoughts (and, like 3 conversations) interjecting throughout.

This was a really fast, very interesting read for me. The whole book takes place over the course of one night, and I think I finished all 300 pages in about two days because I didn’t want to put it down. Also, I think the fact that it’s Young Adult Fiction probably also helped me get through it so quickly (I didn’t know that until I started reading some online discussions about this book a few days ago). It is an amazing and totally necessary read for teens and anyone who needs a reminder about how everything you do and say affects the people around you.

Sidenote: when I was reading online discussions about this book, a few people asked if this would be a good read for a suicidal teen. The answer to this question is absolutely not. I think this book would, more than anything, help justify suicide and even provide ideas as to how to go about it. It’s a great read, but should be kept far away from anyone having suicidal thoughts.

The Best of What’s Left: Nordstrom Fall Clearance Sale Under $100

I have mixed feelings about the arrival of Nordstrom’s Fall Clearance Sale. On one hand, yay! Discounted fall clothes! Fall clothes are the best clothes and the fact that it’s already time for Fall clearance means that it’s almost Christmas time, so that’s exciting. But it also means that I’m gong to have to start scraping my windshield any day now. Boo. So, here are a bunch of my favorite things from Nordstrom’s Fall Clearance Sale (spoiler alert: mostly shoes).

Outerwear

Thread and Supply Double Breasted Peacoat, $37.90 (down from $58). Available in 4 colors.

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The North Face Rissy 2 Packable Wind Resistant Jacket, $89.98 (down from $120).

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Tops

Lush Cross Front Oversize Tee, $22.80 (down from $38). Available in 3 (neutral) colors.

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Sub_Urban Riot “Out of Office,” Graphic Baseball Tee, $23.40 (down from $39).

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Kid Dangerous “Brunch Squad,” Crop Graphic Tee, $29.70 (down from $49.50).

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Dresses/Rompers

Love, Fire Long Sleeve Rib Knit Dress, $29.90 (down from $46).

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Socialite Cross Front T-Shirt Dress, $26.40 (down from $44).

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Leith “Kimono,” Floral Print Romper, $41.40 (down from $69).

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MISSGUIDED Strappy Chiffon Romper, $34.80 (down from $58).

GLAMOROUS Lace-Up Lace Sheath Dress, $50.40 (down from $84).

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Bodysuits

Ten Sixty Sherman Long Sleeve Rib Knit Bodysuit, $20.98 (down from $35). Available in dark gray and light gray (dark is pictured).

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Ten Sixty Sherman Lace Camisole Bodysuit, $17.40 (down from $29).

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4SI3NNA Button Front Bodysuit, $23.40 (down from $39).

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Bottoms

Topshop Moto “Leigh,” Ripped Skinny Jeans , $40 (down from $70)

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PAIGE High Rise Flair Jeans, $89.90 (down from $179!!)

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Shoes

Vince Camuto “Neddy” Pointy Toe Pump, $71.37 (down from $118.95). Available in two colors.

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Vince Camuto “Kain,” Pump, $58.77 (down from $97.95). Available in 3 colors.

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Booties

Luck Brand “Bashina,” Perforated Bootie, $96.90 (down from $138.95). Available in 3 colors.

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Lucky Brand “Lorry,” Chelsea Boot, $83.37 (down from $138.95). Available in 2 colors.

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Naturalizer “Kelper,” Block Heel Bootie, $99.90 (down from $119.95). Available in 3 colors.

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Lace-Up Shoes

Vince Camuto “Barsha,” Lace-up Pump, $77.96 (down from $129.95). Available in Taupe and Cabernet Suede (pictured).

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Sam Edelman “Helaine,” Ghillie Pointy Toe Pump, $90.90 (down from $129.95). Available in black and camel (pictured).

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Vince Camuto “Bodell,” Lace-up Pump, $77.37 (down from $128.95). Available in black, red, and taupe (pictured).

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*You’re probably like, “ummm those are all nearly the same…” Maybe. But I had to let you know all of your color options. Duh.

Steve Madden “Sunshine,” Lace-Up Flat, $41.96 (down from $69.95). Available in 3 colors.

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Vince Camuto “Emmari,” Ghillie Flat, $77.37 (down from $128.95).

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Vince Camuto “Shavona,” Ghillie Pump, $83.37 (down from $138.95).

 

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Not pictured: Too many cute scarves and phone cases to list, Free People bralettes, and even a few swim suits.

Links of the Week: November Week 1

Purewow’s Best Mascara Tricks are here, including how to recover from horrible eye pokes.

On a related note, here is some info on the affects of different mascara wands.

This very handy guide to wedding etiquette.

A  guide to taking care of your denim safely

Probably the most useful thing I’ve ever found, this guide to how to bleach (and tint) your eyebrows.

When you’re feeling lazy in the morning, you can reference this list of tips for the perfect bun.

How many of these habits of financially smart women are you doing? More importantly, how many can you implement?

This extremely helpful list of interviews you should always have an answer prepared for.

And finally, here is how to combat jet lag.

 

 

How to: Create an Excel Budget

I don’t know why it took me so long to come up with this idea, given that tracking my budget is my life but whatever, I’m finally going to blog about creating a budget that does all of the upkeep for you. I’ve been using Excel to keep track of pay dates, payment due dates, auto pay dates, account balances, and my spending in general for the past few years. I can’t say it has been especially helpful in my ridiculous spending problem, but it definitely does let me know if there’s a week that I’ll be particularly broke. Here’s how to setup a budget in Excel:

Put all of your accounts that require payment (loans, car payment, credit cards, etc.) down the left side, leaving the top cell blank. In columns B and C, enter the day of the month on which each payment is due (B) and the current balance that needs to be paid off (C).

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I also like to add a sum function to the end of column C so that I know how much debt I currently have. I make a solid-colored line under my account list so that I know exactly where my accounts end.

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Across the top of your workbook, list all of your pay dates (notice I also maintain a solid line to the right of my account list):

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I only did this example through the end of the year so that all of the detail would be clearly visible. My actual budget goes through May 2017 hehe.

In the gray line, add a sum function which totals the lines between it and the date.

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Copy the formula into the same row for each pay date.

This sum will indicate the total amount of the payments that you make each month.

Directly below this sum, make a new formula of [the amount of your paycheck after taxes]-[the cell which has our sum function in it]. Let’s say my paycheck is $1500 after taxes, in which case my formula would be, “1500-E27,” for the 11/11 pay date. Once you have this formula, copy it into the same row for each pay date.

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This formula will indicate how much money you have to spend after all of your bills are paid.

Next, you need to plug in the payments which you’ll make each pay day (or pay period, whatever). In my example, I’ll just pay $100 on each account on the due date listed in column B. Example, since my pay dates are 11/28 and 12/9, I’ll need to make the payments that are due on the 4th and 1st of the month before the 12/9 paycheck (duh), so I’ll budget for them to come out of the 11/28 paycheck:

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You can see at the bottom now, you have your spending money listed. If you’d rather pay more debt off and spend less, increase your payment amounts listed, and the formula at the bottom will then reflect how much you have to spend between pay dates.

At the end, I like to add a column which reflects the total amount which you have planned to pay. To do this, just add a sum function in each of the cells in the column (after all pay dates) and total the amount of payments per account:

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The whole reason I do this is so I can see, after all of my scheduled payments, how much debt I still have to pay off, and in which accounts that debt is. To do this, add a column between your Balance column (C) and the solid colored line. Title it whatever you want, mine is called, “Projected,” as in, my projected debt after all of my payments have been processed. Add a formula in each row which subtracts your balance (column C) from the amount which you have paid (column J):

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This shows, after the payments indicated on your budget are paid, how much you’ll still have to pay off. Since this example shows a negative amount on the Mastercard account, we know that the account will be overpaid if we make all of our scheduled payments as indicated above (sweet!) and you now have $50 extra dollars to spend (or redirect into a payment to a different account. In the screen shot below, I have redirected it to the Visa account listed).

Extra things you can do:

If you’re enrolled in autopay, I color code any auto-due dates. My student loan payment comes out automatically on the 9th of every month, so I have that color coded blue on whatever pay date it comes from.

Add an area at the bottom for activities that you know will cost you more than what you usually spend between pay dates. Have a vacation planned? Add it to the bottom of a pay date so that you remember not to make a huge payment on your car.Going out for a birthday? Add that too so you set aside $50 extra for a birthday gift (or drinks at the bar, whatever).

Indicate when your accounts will be paid off with green-colored cells for the remainder of the row post-payoff.

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And there you have it! It looks like a lot of work to setup but 1) it’s really not and 2) it’s totally worth it because it requires very little upkeep. The only maintenance I do to my budget is update the balances twice a month (after my payments have cleared) to reflect the payments I made and any interest that has been accrued. Also, after my payments have all cleared (I color code the payment cells yellow when I make a payment and am waiting for it to go through), I delete the whole pay date column from the worksheet. So, after the 11/11 pay date, I’ll delete that column and 11/28 will be at the front, immediately to the right of my solid purple line.

PLEASE let me know if you need any help creating a budget because it is a legit HOBBY of mine and I would love nothing more than to help.